Ugh. I don't know. I always feel like right after I publish something, I look at it and it doesn't come out the way I wanted it to . . . no matter how long I wait to put it out there. And then, I always want to go back and change things because I'm worried about people reading it the wrong way, etc.
So, in short, I think I need to wait even longer and maybe have my husband or someone read it. Living and learning with every story.
By the way, I just wanted to let you know that I'm so thankful for the positive, supportive, and inclusive community you've created in the Womxn of Medium group. I know you do a lot of work on it and it absolutely doesn't go unnoticed. :)